Guys: Find A Girl Worth Finding

I’m sure if you’re reading this you probably “kind of” know me. You either know me because well, we’ve probably drank a beer or two together, you know some of my friends, or well you’re just downright curious what a crazy cat like me would have to say about a girl worth finding.

In this crazy game of life we are all bound and determined to find love or someone to share our lives with. I know, I know…you probably don’t want to read about love or the pursuit of it.But I think there’s so much emphasis put on the concept of “what women deserve” or the type of men they should be looking for. It’s not often enough I see any posts about the kind of love men deserve or should be looking for.

Find the girl that loves you for the rugged, oil stained blue jeans you show up in after a long day of work in the shop. Find the girl that loves the scuffs on your boots. Find the girl that doesn’t care if you run hogs all day or boardrooms all day. Find the girl that doesn’t define you based upon the clothes you wear, the job you work, or the vehicle you drive. Find the girl that would still have a sparkle in her eye if you were to lose everything.

Find a girl that will make the struggles of life not just bearable, but worth it. Life is rough, man. Life is rough, even if you’re a tough guy. Find the gal that makes you crack a smile every day. Find the gal that directs you to God in times of despair. Find the girl that prays for you every time she speaks with the Lord. Find the girl that takes your hand and walks through the storm of life by your side, fighting and ready to take on whatever challenge comes your way. Find the girl that just by being by your side makes the rough times worth it.

Don’t settle for the girl that looks appealing from the screen of your phone. Find the girl that opens her heart to the world, not just a girl who gets the most hearts on Instagram. Find the girl that brings so much life to your life that you don’t even feel the need to scroll through Facebook. Find yourself the girl who makes you laugh those deep, jolly belly cackles because she’s actually funny, not just because she retweets funny stuff. Don’t settle for the girl your friends will be jealous of merely because of the way she looks. Find yourself the girl your friends admire for her intelligence, the way she treats them. Find yourself the girl that isn’t loved for the way she looks, but for the way she carries herself and treats those around her. Find the girl that can converse just as easily in real life as she can over text. The person on the screen of your phone can be a totally different person in real life. Find the girl who is just as much fun in the reality of life as she appears online.

Find yourself the girl you would be proud to have a daughter just like. Find a tough girl that has remained fragile. Someone who stands her ground, but does so with compassion. Find the girl who tells the drive-thru worker thank you and tells them to have a great day with a genuine smile. Find the girl who will help a struggling elderly man at the store find the multivitamin he is looking for. Find the girl who embraces strangers as if she’s known them her entire life.

Find the girl who finds the positive in the worst of situations. Find a girl who is much more excited about what lies ahead instead of the girl who looks back in bitterness. Find an intelligent girl, one well-versed in a wide variety of subjects. Find a girl that can talk sports or baking. Find a girl that is well-rounded in the terms of experience and exposure. Find someone who appreciates all cultures for the diversity they bring the world. Find a girl who knows things about stuff you have no clue about but doesn’t make you feel stupid for that, rather she makes you interested in learning more about those topics.

Find a girl who has no problem admitting her faults and apologizing when she’s in the wrong. Find a girl who will tell you when you’re wrong, but forgives you immediately. Find the girl who acknowledges life is too short to hold grudges.

Find the girl you want to go on vacations with, to explore foreign lands and learn about other cultures. But at the same time, find the girl that takes you to a different world without even leaving the house because she makes you think about life on a deeper level.

Find the girl you want to create family traditions with. Find the girl you want to stay up late with on Christmas Eve to finish wrapping the last minute presents for your children. Find the girl you want to wake up early with on Sundays to get the kids ready for church. Find the girl who makes you want to take a random Wednesday off work just to go do something outside of the usual routine. Find the girl that wants to make you your favorite dessert, just because.

Find yourself a girl who makes you see the value of life, the value of people, and the value of a relationship with the Lord.

Find the girl who knows that life is defined by balance and keeping a level head, even in the midst of life’s hardest situations.

Find the girl who finds value in your work, in your family, in your relationships with others, in your hobbies. Find the girl who values you, for you.

Look for the girl who doesn’t make you question the word “forever”. Look for the girl who makes you believe that a love centered around God can withstand the tests of the world and the test of time.

I don’t believe in looking for just anything.

I believe in looking for things that are worth finding.

The key to finding things is making sure you don’t get lost or lose yourself in the process.

Guys, find a girl worth finding. Girls, become a girl worth finding.

 

Happy hunting and happy becoming,

D ♥