When you give a girl a big heart…
“The girl with a big heart looks for angels in demons; with a golden heart, her love is refreshing. Her soul is pure. She’s everything that might just take the burn out of hell, a breath of angelic air that might just coax the devil to take the trip to heaven.”
~ Hurricane D-Ray
When you give a girl a big heart strength abounds.
When you give a girl a big heart she’s perhaps the softest, yet toughest girl in the room. She’s the anomaly that no one quite understands, yet everyone longs to know. She’s the girl who adorns both grit and grace equally well as if both cuts and jewels. She knows that in a world that praises people for being cold hearted, she’s the outsider looking in. She’s the one that analyzes how the world can feel so little, only capable of imagining what it might be like if just for a day she could feel a little less, care a little less, and hurt a little less. Yet, everyday she wakes up and chooses to be the woman who fearlessly and selflessly loves everyone she comes in contact with.
While her softness is a beauty in its own, it is not to be mistaken for weakness. When you give a woman a big heart you secretly fill a delicate, beautiful teacup with a shot of whiskey. She’s strong, yet delicate to the eye. Just like the teacup isn’t expected to pack a punch, neither is the girl with the big heart. You never know exactly what the girl with a big heart is holding within. But if you should ever find out, like the whiskey in a teacup offers a beautiful burn, her inner-strength will satisfyingly stun you. If you should ever find yourself in love with her, it won’t take much to find yourself madly, deeply, intoxicated by the ways of her courageous heart.
Women with big hearts suffer through the pains of life gracefully. Women with big hearts know what it’s like to have to continually rebuild broken objects, like that of her own heart, time and time again, knowing damn good and well it’ll only be broken yet again. Girls with big hearts know exactly what it’s like to be disappointed and let down over and over again, simply because big hearted women give too many chances to people no one else would dare to offer.
To walk into a fire knowing you’re going to get burnt may be seen as ignorant to most. To the big hearted woman, walking into a fire means you have the potential to save someone. As every day passes she not only knows the pain of seeing someone in a less fortunate state, she feels it. When you give a girl a big heart, she feels everything within the webs of her inner fibers, all the way to her inner-most core.
She very well knows that she could isolate her heart and not feel as much pain. She very well knows that if she didn’t offer so many chances her heart wouldn’t ache nearly as much. She knows very well that even though many dub her as ignorant, there’s someone out there that needs her big, open, faithful heart. The one person she can help is worth the hundreds believing her to be ignorant or weak. The girl with the big heart believes in saving people not because it saves them, but because in the end, it saves her. When you give a girl a big heart you give her the ability to find enjoyment in offering pieces of herself to the world. In seeing the slightest bit of happiness in another, the girl with the big heart’s own heart is renewed and her spirit saved.
When you give a girl a big heart you give her the ability to light up a room by walking in, the ability to mend broken hearts, but most importantly you give her the ability to change the world for the better simply by being in it.